{"id":10660,"date":"2026-07-29T08:28:44","date_gmt":"2026-07-29T05:28:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/want-to-be-happy-first-understand-what-it-really-costs\/"},"modified":"2026-09-01T09:51:07","modified_gmt":"2026-09-01T06:51:07","slug":"want-to-be-happy-first-understand-what-it-really-costs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/want-to-be-happy-first-understand-what-it-really-costs\/","title":{"rendered":"Want to Be Happy? First, Understand What It Really Costs"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group psychology-article-intro has-background\" style=\"background-color:#f7f3ed\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Happiness is often presented as a destination we will eventually reach once we have more money, recognition, success, or a \u201cperfect\u201d life free from conflict and loss. In reality, however, a deeper sense of fulfilment depends far less on what we achieve and far more on whether our lives feel meaningful and aligned with our personal values. External success can bring security and temporary satisfaction, but it cannot guarantee inner peace. Eudaimonic wellbeing, in the Aristotelian sense, is not a passing emotion but a way of living that develops through self-awareness, meaningful goals, presence, gratitude, and deep human relationships. The difficulty is that the human mind is far more attuned to threat and deficiency than to contentment, which is why we can spend years chasing \u201cmore\u201d without ever truly feeling that what we have is enough.    <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Meaningful happiness comes at a cost because it requires us to let go of the illusion that life can be fully controlled and to accept that pain, uncertainty, and difficulty are part of being human. Maturity is not about eliminating whatever makes us uncomfortable, but about learning to place those experiences within a wider perspective, make new meaning from what happens to us, and remain connected to what matters even when life does not unfold as we hoped. Resilience, acceptance, reframing, and strong relationships provide a far more stable foundation than the pursuit of constant pleasure. Perhaps happiness is not something we finally achieve when everything goes well, but something that gradually emerges from the way we learn to live deeply and meaningfully even when life is difficult.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<p class=\"wp-container-content-9cfa9a5a wp-block-paragraph\"><em>The full article was originally published on the Psychology Portal \u2013 Psychology.gr.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.psychology.gr\/thetiki-psychologia\/9609-theleis-eftyxia-des-prota-ti-pragmatika-kostizei.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read the full article<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n    <section class=\"anna-related-services-block\">\n        <h3 class=\"anna-related-services-block__title\">Related services<\/h3>\n\n                    <p class=\"anna-related-services-block__intro\">You can read more about related services:<\/p>\n        \n        <div class=\"anna-related-services-block__buttons\">\n                            \n                <a class=\"anna-related-services-block__button\" href=\"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/services\/individual-therapy\/\">\n                    Individual Therapy                <\/a>\n                            \n                <a class=\"anna-related-services-block__button\" href=\"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/services\/group-therapy\/\">\n                    Group Therapy                <\/a>\n                            \n                <a class=\"anna-related-services-block__button\" href=\"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/services\/organizational-psychology\/\">\n                    Organizational Psychology                <\/a>\n                            \n                <a class=\"anna-related-services-block__button\" href=\"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/services\/greeks-living-abroad-and-migration\/\">\n                    Greeks Living Abroad and Migration                <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n    \n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happiness is often presented as a destination we will eventually reach once [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10659,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[301,305,310],"tags":[368,369,336,397,312,509,331,527],"class_list":["post-10660","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-awareness-and-personal-development","category-grief-loss-and-life-transitions","category-psychology-of-everyday-life","tag-gratitude","tag-happiness","tag-human-relationships","tag-meaning-in-life","tag-mental-toughness","tag-mindfulness-2","tag-reframing","tag-self-awareness"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10660","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10660"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10660\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10661,"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10660\/revisions\/10661"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10659"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10660"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10660"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annakarakerezi.gr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}